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The In-Between
The In-Between is my space for all the unexpected twists, messy moments, and “figuring it out as I go” days. Life isn’t always neat or clear, and neither are these posts — sometimes they’re deep reflections, sometimes random thoughts, and sometimes just what’s on my heart in the moment. If you’re somewhere in the middle too, wondering what comes next or how to make sense of it all, this is the spot for you. Let’s take it one day at a time.


If Life is Getting Good Again, You Should Allow it to Happen (And How I Got There)
You do not need to stay loyal your suffering like a badge of honor. Let yourself feel your own light, your own progress, your own joy.
Neva Roenne
Nov 48 min read


On Missing Versions of Yourself
No one really talks about how strange it is to outgrow yourself. You work so hard to heal and move forward, and then one day you look back and realize you kind of miss who you were before everything changed. Even if that version of you was lost, scared, or unsure, she was still you.
Neva Roenne
Oct 213 min read


If You're Ever Losing Faith In Humanity, Go Watch a Cross Country Race
Or a marathon, or an Ironman, or something of that nature.
Neva Roenne
Oct 104 min read


How Are You Spending Your "40 Chances"?
The book is a collection of 40 stories about Howard Buffet's experiences, travels, and philanthropy around the globe. If you only had 40 chances to get it right, how would you spend them?
Neva Roenne
Oct 37 min read


My Top 5s' Top 5s
Please enjoy my list of my top 5 artists and their top 5 songs. What makes music great to me is how is can draw on experiences and emotions that we all share.
Neva Roenne
Sep 184 min read


Come As You Are, You Were Made For A Purpose
But here’s a truth I want you to hold close: in God’s eyes you were made to be here. Not by mistake, not because others need you, but because you matter intrinsically.
Neva Roenne
Sep 163 min read


The Summer I...
As summer comes to an end, I wanted to reflect a bit on the things I did, learned, unlearned, and enjoyed this summer.
Neva Roenne
Sep 25 min read


Sundays Are for Football and These Guys: My Fav NFL Players for 2025-26 season
Here’s my lineup of favorite NFL players — chosen with equal parts heart, bias, and fantasy football chaos.
Neva Roenne
Aug 203 min read


Ingredients for August
And even now, as a grown-up with no school supplies list to follow, August still tugs on those same strings — part closing chapter, part clean slate.
Neva Roenne
Aug 42 min read


Presence Over Perfection
It’s not about doing the most. It’s not about having the perfect schedule or the perfect words. It’s just about showing up.
Neva Roenne
Jul 164 min read


Things I am Loving Lately
Here’s what’s been keeping my head up and my heart soft lately — no fluff, just the good stuff.
Neva Roenne
Jul 143 min read


It's July and I have hope in who I am becoming.
We are halfway through the year and I am not the person I thought I would be. I am not in the place I had planned on. I have different people in my life than who I thought. But I am here. I am embracing every minute of the sunshine during these long days of summer.
Neva Roenne
Jul 73 min read


All My Love: A Beginning
Please understand that I’m not here because I have all the answers. I’m here because I believe we should all share what we are thinking and that there’s something sacred in paying attention — to God, to people, to the ordinary
Neva Roenne
Jun 175 min read
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