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I Showed All My Cards, And I'll Do It Again and Again
If showing all my cards means everyone gets to see that I cared, that I loved them, that I was excited to be here, then fine.
Neva Roenne
1 day ago5 min read


Maybe I am the Bad Guy To Someone...
No matter how hard we try to be liked and loved by everyone in our lives and everyone we walk by, we all are the bad guy in someone's story.
Neva Roenne
Sep 93 min read


No, I Don't Love Running. I Love Who It Allows Me To Become.
Running filled a hole I didn’t even realize I had, but it filled it differently than anything else before.
Neva Roenne
Aug 108 min read


SMILE, Or You're Doing It Wrong
It was a story about someone who kept choosing growth. Someone who took the hardest parts of his life and used them as proof that he was capable of more.
Neva Roenne
Aug 44 min read


The Type of Friendship We All Deserve
If five years of knowing Lyndsey has taught me anything, it's this: I hope I make people feel the way she has always made me feel—safe, celebrated, and completely at home. If I can do that for even a handful of people in my lifetime, I'll consider it a life well lived.
Neva Roenne
Jul 204 min read


Cheers to 30 Years!
If anyone in this world deserves to be celebrated, it is, without a doubt, Jason and Heather Roenne.
Neva Roenne
Jul 102 min read


Things My Friends Are Tired Of Hearing About
New things have come into my life and old familiar ones have popped back up. Here is a list of some of the things I am all about and completely into right now!
Neva Roenne
Jun 82 min read


Totus Tuus: The Story Behind My First Tattoo
I got my first tattoo with my sisters earlier this year. I absolutely love it! I've been wanting a tattoo for many years and this one specifically for about 3 years. I don't think all tattoos need to have a super deep meaning, but this one really does for me. Here is that meaning...
Neva Roenne
May 293 min read


Sorry, But My Sister Is My Soulmate: An Apology To My Future Husband
I know true love, true devotion, true friendship, and true selflessness exists because I have her.
Neva Roenne
May 73 min read


My Mantras Lately, And When I Force Them To Fill My Head
Speak to yourself kindly, fill your head with fuel and positivity, and remember that no one talks to you more than yourself (take that seriously).
Neva Roenne
May 63 min read


Spring Is A Reminder That Things Begin Again
The same way those animals learn to stand. The same way the grass comes back. The same way the trees bloom like nothing ever happened.
Neva Roenne
Apr 84 min read


When I Grow Up, I Want to Be Like My Mom
If I become half the woman my mom is, I will consider my life a success.
Neva Roenne
Mar 205 min read


"That's Really Difficult" Is Not A Reason To Not Do It.
I'm not talking suffering for the sake of suffering. I'm talking doing things that matter to you and bring joy to lives around you regardless of the effort required. You are worth fighting for.
Neva Roenne
Mar 53 min read


The Real Luxury Is Being Able to Move Your Body
Moving your body is not a consequence for existing. It is not payment for eating. It is not a sentence handed down because you want to look good in photos.
Neva Roenne
Feb 133 min read


If I've Learned Anything, It's How Valuable My Heart Is
God wouldn’t make a heart as soft as mine, or build it like this, without making someone else who can hold it gently and courageously… right?
Neva Roenne
Feb 53 min read


"You Made Me Feel Seen": A Complement I'll Never Forget
I look like my mother so of course I've been told I am beautiful. I've been called strong, smart, kind, athletic, bubbly, and many more. But there is a specific conversation I had my senior year of college that made me think to myself "I've done what I was put here to do."
Neva Roenne
Jan 193 min read


A List of Things That Make Life Worth Living
Sundried tomatoes, tiny kittens, the smell of grass after it is mowed, a clear night sky where you can see the swirls of the galaxy, music that hits your brain just right, a perfect Pinterest board
Neva Roenne
Jan 132 min read


The Books That Have Influenced Me
I think that literature has a way of sinking deep into my bones. I feel words in a very strong and real way. I don't know if it is because of the stories, the way words are strung together, or something else. But I know that when I read words on a page, it impacts my brain more than a spoken word ever could. With this in mind, let me go through a list of the books that have influenced me the most throughout my life and why (where applicable). Little Kid (3-7 years old) Cordur
Neva Roenne
Jan 84 min read


On Kindness, Humility, and the Year I Became Someone I Like
I used to think strength looked like exhaustion personified. Like being the busiest, the most worn-out, the one with the longest to-do list and the least sleep. I wore being tired like a badge of honor. If someone asked how I was, I think half the time I believed the honest answer was “busy” or “stressed.” I thought that proved something. I thought it meant I was working hard and doing more than everyone else. But this past year taught me something very different: You don’t h
Neva Roenne
Jan 55 min read


24 Things I Know At 24
These are the truths I know and have learned in my 24 years of living and loving:
Neva Roenne
Dec 7, 20252 min read
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